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OH, also, when I say “We”, “Us”, “Our”, etc. I actually mean me. I am the only person answering questions, so like I said, it just became too much. I just wanted to help people, this was never going to become full time, and get the majority of my attention, as I stated, I have a girlfriend, and they can be quite time consuming… aha. Especially as I’m only 18, which is quite a hectic age.

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Q:thanks for taking the time to answer my question, really appreciate you guys always being there like you said.

Anonymous

You’re welcome!

Q:I have a lot I want to get off my chest, I like always coming to you guys for advice
I've met someone who's changing me completely all for the better. I've been the kind of girl who can't really settle down, I talk to a lot of guys, I smoke, I drink, I party. It doesn't feel right but I do it. Well anyways I met him a while ago, we started getting to know each other and I've fallen so hard for him. He's become my everything, I don't think I've experienced this with anyone else. We talk from the morning until the night, and we stay on the phone for more than 5 hours at times. I never get tired of hearing his voice, last night he told me he loved me and the words came so easy to say I loved him too. I cried, he lives so far from me. I don't know how I feel about a long distance relationship,I don't want to lose him. He's helped me quit smoking, drinking, I party less because I much rather spend time with him. I get this heavy feeling on my chest when I realize how far away he really is. Am I getting too attached and are long distance relationships ever successful? :/

Anonymous

Thank you for coming to us!

I think what you have with him is special, and if he has helped you so much, and you really love it, then I think nothing should stand in the way. Love rarely comes along, and when it does, you can’t just let it go, no matter what it may be that gets in the way.

You’re not getting too attached, I think you’re just falling in love.

Are long distance relationships ever successful? Hmm, I have that thought running through my head every night, in a year I go to uni, and I’m scared to death of whether me and my girlfriend will make it through. That being said, I believe that if you truly love someone, and they love you, you can make it through anything. You have both just got to try really hard, and I know it’ll be hard, but if you make it, and it lasts a long time, who knows, you could end up living together.

So, just make it work, because you don’t want to break it off over fear, when it could be more than you ever dreamed.

I hope that helps!

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Q:We texted our i love yous everyday, hung out playing video games, sharing how we feel about each other or what was going through our lives. The girl I used to hate, now became the girl I loved most and could never replace. We were each other's support, always rooting each other on in our hard times, spending time with each other's family; you could say we had the perfect relationship.

It was perfect up until, the texts became few, the responses short, and visits from took months to happen. I knew something was up but I was in denial. A week ago she called, telling me why she had been absent, confessing no one was taking her away from me and that we would make more time to spend with each other. I felt reassured, I still had my bestfriend... or so I thought.

I had texted her wishing her a safe flight as she was going to see her other best-friend who was graduating and they both would be arriving home from a road-trip when she dropped the line that she kinda has a boyfriend and she would explain everything to me. It was a knee-jerk reaction to me, but not shocking, I was prepared. I knew that someday this day would come but in the back of my mind I would always wish that day never came.

I'll be honest, I didn't take it gracefully as I was in the midst of congratulating her on her new relationship, I couldn't help but feel jealous that someone new would replacing my time with her, I couldn't help but feel selfish that I didn't want her with another dude besides myself, and I couldn't help but a bit betrayed due to her saying no one would take her away from me, but she yet she did. Though I felt that way I knew it was wrong, I should support her no matter what. I'm more disappointed in myself by falling in love with my best friend... not knowing what I should do next or what my role in her life will be anymore. I'm going to respect her relationship by giving her space and not contacting her, I've never had a girl best-friend before so idk how it all works.

So if you had any useful advice I would pretty much appreciate it.

Thanks Jay

Anonymous

Wow, first thing I thought while I was reading this was how perfect you are. I have never known a guy like this, until now.

Anyways, there’s not a lot I can say as you are already giving her space, and supporting her. You’re doing everything right, if you just try not to think about her too much, then the pain will stop faster. You will make it through this, you’ve just got to be strong, do things to take your mind off of her, it’ll get easier.

You’re going to find another girl, who loves you as much as you love her, I promise you that, because the way you act and think, makes you the perfect guy, and lots of girls will love you for that.

Q:I'm 17 years old. I have never had even a semi serious relationship and I've been so used to being alone. But these days I'm feeling really.. lonely in the way of I need someone. The thing is is that I am ALWAYS ALWAYS the friend. Even when someone has an interest in me it's usually they just want to hook up, or they like me, but then they don't want to lose me as a friend so we stay that way. Is there something wrong with me?
I've also never been a very emotional person. I mean, the most serious relationship I had the guy cheated on me with 4 girls, two of them being my best friends. And yet, I didn't even get upset much and we are really close friends.
I don't know, I'm just really really tired of being alone these days and always just being the friend..

Anonymous

There is nothing wrong with you! I’m sorry to hear about him cheating on you, you didn’t deserve that! I hope you’re not still friends with them… anyways, all I can say is it’ll just take time, someone will come along who will like you as more than a friend, I promise. You’re not doing anything wrong, at all!

Q:I've just turned 18 and I'm pretty lonely, months since I've been with anyone, my last relationship has messed me up. I'm afraid to get in a serious relationship, in a way I'm also not ready to settle down. there's a few people who are interested and me and I'll talk to them but they want something serious with me. I feel as though I'm too young to fall in love but there has been this boy who I've gotten to meet and I feel like he could be the one to change my ways. I'm afraid I'll hurt him though, I avoid him on some days I don't want to get his hopes up. I don't want to get mines either. What's wrong with me? I honestly don't know what to do.

Anonymous

What’s wrong with you? You said it yourself, your last relationship, I think that you have been hurt so badly in the past that you are afraid to let love in again, afraid that it will all happen again, but that is just the chance you take with love. I think you shouldn’t avoid this boy; you should see him, if you think he could be the one, then you should be with him, just don’t go too fast, as you are still hurting. Take a risk and let him in, otherwise you’re just going to be left wondering what it could have been, and trust me, you don’t want that.

Good luck, we are here if you need to ask anything else.

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Q:ive got a boyfriend, ive been with him for a very long time, but one of my 'ex's likes my best friend, and im incredibly jealous, i dont know if i still like him, i dont want to, but what if i do? :/ i really dont know what to do, i dont want to tell him, because he will tell my friend that he likes..

Anonymous

Think about this - your boyfriend; could you live without him? How upset would you be if he left you? What would you do if he just vanished from your life?

And now how about the guy you don’t know if you still like; Could you live without him? How upset would you be if he left you? What would you do if he just vanished from your life?

Answer all of those, for each guy, which one would you be more upset over? The answer will become really easy after you find out who you care about more. It’s okay to be a bit jealous, but just don’t pick the wrong guy.

Like, and love are very different things, so if you love your boyfriend, don’t tell the other guy you could like him, as I don’t really see much point to that.

Q:Me and My friends has always been one of those anti drinking and smoking people , we just find it so immature how young age kids start doing it.
Recently 2 of my friends went out to another country for holiday , one of the girl is my best friend ( at least i think so ) she drank and the other girl got drunk.
personally i feel pressured and want to drink too
but my other best friend that ive known for 9 years tells me that she so ashamed of them
and that if i drink , i should drink when she leaves to another country or i leave.

i dont know if we should talk to our friends or not but
i dont know what to do ....:S

Anonymous

No one can control what you do, if you want to drink, then drink, if you don’t, then don’t. Your friend(s) should accept you, for whoever you are.

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Q:Who better to turn to than your blog site :l
I honestly appreciate the advice you've given me the few times I've come to you
once again :/
The same boy, We love each other very much and he's giving me mixed signals, we are not a couple but he says he wants me one day and the next day he simple refers to me as a best friend
how should I take this, what do I do.
Am I over stressing all of this?

Anonymous

Thank you so much for choosing this blog then!

I don’t think that you are over stressing this… I mean if he loves you, he should want to be with you, now. Although, it’s a guy, and it’s impossible to figure out how they think. So, my advice would be to ask him how long it’s going to take for you two to go out, because you don’t want to wait, as you are both in love. And ask him, whether he truthfully wants to be with you, just explain how you just want to know either way, because if he doesn’t want to be with you, you don’t want to be waiting for nothing.

Come back and tell me how it goes, and ask any further questions if you wish to.

Good luck!

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